How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 15:02
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
What I need from you?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
How do I seduce my sister? (I am an Indian) I want to have sex with her.?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Has anyone ever had sex with their cousin? How did it start, and would you do it again?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
How do you find out who your handler is as a targeted individual?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Ask yourself:
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Can I know a love story of a medical student?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Procrastinates a lot.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
What is the reason behind the Russian government's negative view on foreign travel?
Hangs out with loser friends.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
According to Trump, Ukraine started the war. Why?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Making more friends is a goal.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Why do doctors refuse HRT to menopausal women but hand them out to trans people?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Does not procrastinate.
That's it for today.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Why is it difficult to get a job?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.